Saturday, June 19, 2021

Virgo - What kind of spouse are you?

 


THE VIRGO HUSBAND: AUGUST 24 / SEPTEMBER 23.

Almost the only kind of wife for the Virgo husband is the Virgo wife. These men are not interested in love in the passionate personal possessive sense of the term. They are usually conventional traditionally minded men who accept domesticity because it is part of the social scheme. They are willing to conduct private life on a partnership basis as if it were a commercial enterprise. In many cases they would prefer to be bachelors and this sign does produce the bachelor by natural inclination. They are so abstemious that they can not bear to indulge even themselves. Stinginess a vice that has kept many a man from matrimony is present in either a small or large degree in the Virgo nature.

As husbands they mare much like the women of the type. The high quality Virgoan is a capable man making comfortable provision for his wife and family. If he is fussy critical peevish or complaining (especially about health and expenses) he iis also composed kindly thoughtful and conscientious. He safeguards his home and is careful to protect it from material disaster.

Unless there are other stimulating factors in the horoscope the Virgo husband is not virile. He has little male dominance in his make-up and is as loath to demand surrender as he is ti give himself. He does not have a passionate urge and his deepest approach to love is flirtation or a play at love. Erotic flights of passion would never be attempted by him and his point ;of view toward even average sexual performance is not enthusiastic.


THE VIRGO WIFE : AUGUST 24 / SEPTEMBER 23.

Contrary to all the analysis of Virgo the woman when she does marry she makes an excellent wife. That is in certain respects. Her concept of marriage is the legal partnership idea to be carried out as a smoothly – running business. She is usually capable and arranges her housekeeping routine perfectly. The home is spotless [everything seems to remain new] and the cooking excellent. She is vigilant and efficient - in fact she is everything that can make a home run like a well regulated machine. There is no such thing as waste or neglect in her home for the wife is as they say “ ON THE JOB”.

Her disposition is not so good. Perhaps all of this routine is a strain even when the nature is attuned to it. In any case the Virgo wife is apt to be fussy nagging meticulous to a fault and all of this regarding the most material matters usually the running of this home that is nursed so tenderly. The Virgo wife guards the family purse jealously in extreme cases she is very stingy and in all of her responses to life she shows the same parsimonious attitude.

Emotionally this type of woman is often way below par. She responds to all of the outward routines of life and meets traditional duties extraordinarily well. But the spiritual companionship and emotional ecstasy so necessary in a wife is more often than not entirely absent. She has in her makeup selfish coldness that resents demands more personal warmth much as if such qualities if she had them would never be shared with anyone. It is doubtful if the Virgo wife ever recovers from her maiden beliefs that sex is base and that she is descending when she accedes to her husband’s physical necessities. A very clever man who was deeply in love might alter this frame of mind but since the Virgo woman seldom inspires that intensity of passion her best hope is for a mate as restrained practical and material as herself. In such an environment she makes a very successful wife.

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